Past, Present, Future Self.

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Past, Present, Future Self

My name is Emma Loveheart, and my spiritual journey, (and we are all on one whatever your beliefs), is definitely one of discovery. Waking up today, I realised that I have three main blocks in my life. My past me, my present me and my future me.

There is much well directed advice out there to encourage us to live in the now and yet our brains constantly remind us of the past or tell us we will be happy in the future. How many of you when asked the question; ‘what do you want in life?’, respond with the answer, ‘to be happy’ ?

I would guess it is most of us, I know I have said that to myself all my life. Every birthday I had when I blew out the candles on my cake, my wish was to be happy. But what we are doing is pinning our happiness to a future event, or attaching our lack of happiness to past events. This is our brain hard at work tricking us into mis-beliefs.

PAST SELF

We will all have experienced some trauma in our early childhood. Experiences will vary greatly and will be different to different people, but they will be there. To protect ourselves from these traumas, our brain separates the part of us that emotionally felt the trauma, so that we don’t have to keep reliving the experience. This is the beginning of disconnecting ourselves from ourselves. But it works! We can bury the emotion and get on with our lives. But here’s the catch; we are not meant to be disconnected. Our spiritual journey in this life is to be connected to ourselves and love. When we disconnect we struggle, and life just keeps throwing us curve balls. When we connect, we can love and be loved. The curve balls are reminders that we have disconnected and need to go through some healing. When we don’t acknowledge there is some healing to do within, the challenges increase. Either, we constantly come up against blocks, or we get ill. All these challenges are actually assignments and opportunities to learn and grow. But when we have the awareness of this and can acknowledge the challenge and learn from it, that’s when life starts to flow and miracles can happen.

PRESENT SELF

So, I expect most of you would say you have issues with money and don’t have enough. I know I do. In fact, I have always felt that, and money can be very time consuming from an energy perspective. Life today presents itself with lots of financial burdens such as a house and a car, which are now seen as essentials and minimum requirements, and yet can be huge commitments. We are also presented with so many opportunities to have experiences, such as eating out, travelling, and entertainment. The lack of money to do everything we want eats away at us. And yet, if you were to truly answer do you have a money problem right now, in this very moment, do you? As I sit writing this article on my PC, I don’t have a money problem. I am thinking what to write and thinking it might be lunch time soon, but money problems do not actually exist in the here and now. In other words, although we may feel we have constant money issues, for the majority of our time we don’t. The point is bringing everything back into perspective. If you truly connect with the here and now, you have no problems at all. You only have you.

FUTURE SELF

How many times have you said to yourself, ‘when I get ‘x’, I will be happy’? This could be the dream house, the perfect partner, or a certain level of income. Just like me blowing out my birthday candles and wishing to be happy, I was attaching my happiness on an outcome in the future. But guess what? Yes, the future never happens! The future will always be in the future. We put so much of our energy into the future that we can never be happy in the now. It’s impossible as we are constantly telling ourselves happiness is attached to something. I have done this myself in looking for the perfect relationship. I have told myself that when I have the perfect person in my life, I will finally feel complete and fulfilled. Well, that’s a tough order for someone! Of course, the reality is I am already fulfilled and have all the love around me I need right now. The truth is, by putting an attachment onto a future event, I can’t see what I already have around me. We owe it to ourselves to accept what we have in the now and be grateful.

I realise this is always easier said than done. I am still battling away after years of awareness! It’s about recognising this is ok and it can take time as you are changing life time and genetic habits. My sharing this is a good reminder for me too.

To help you reconnect with yourself, my previous article (Working Intuitively in Life) on tips to work more intuitively may help you get back on track. It has to be little steps in retraining yourself, but at least you know you are not alone.

 

Working Intuitively with Life

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My name is Emma Loveheart and I work with energy on people and their homes to ensure there is no negative energy around to cause discomfort or disharmony.

Naturally, as someone in the healing profession, personal life and challenges can often weave their way through my work and the theme for me at the moment is definitely working more intuitively in life. It’s about letting go and trusting that all is well and taken care of. Easier said than done!

We can get so caught up in our worries, I know I do, but we need to find ways to bring our awareness back to reality and bring our thoughts back to the here and now.

I love all the positive quotes people often post on social media, the successes people share, and the wisdom I get from authors sharing their own experiences when I read or revisit an inspiring book. They are little nudges and reminders, but I also know that sometimes, if I am not in a good place, they are extremely annoying! If you are having a bad day, it feels like the last thing you want to hear and can actually demoralise you even further.

On my radio show this month on Newsforthesoul.com, my guest was a healer called Amanda Farrar. She is a teacher in Law of Attraction and Manifestation. We discussed how important it was to be connected to a high vibrational energy within yourself to assist your life to flow rather then stick or be blocked. But how can you achieve this?

In a previous article I wrote called, ‘Are you under Psychic Attack’  I explored how there could be negative energy attached to you or attacking you which would be influencing your thoughts and your behaviour. This is something that needs to be cleared, and is a service I offer, before you can really work on the next step which is raising or keeping your vibrational energy high.

To truly work intuitively with life, you need to be connected to life through your heart.

This week I shared the picture of a dandelion and asked, ‘Do you see a weed, or perfection and beauty?’

Obviously a dandelion is a weed, and they are everywhere, but if you look closely, it really is a work of art. Another analogy is whether your glass is half full, or half empty. We are all aware that we can switch between the two trains of thought. The first challenge is being aware of this, the second challenge is discovering how to see beauty and have that glass half full. This is seeing life through your heart and through love.

Your challenge is to find a solution that works for you, to bring you back to that place of positivity when you find yourself drifting.

 

On the show, Amanda and I shared some of the solutions we use when times are challenging.

JOURNAL

Writing a journal and downloading all the stress and worries in your head is a great start to clearing the negativity from your head. It has been proven scientifically that writing your worries down, releases your brain from having to think about it anymore. Great!

NATURE

Getting out in nature and reconnecting to mother earth is a great way of clearing your mind and getting life back into perspective. Just breathing fresh air really helps calm stress levels and helps the brain see things more clearly.

LAUGHING

A good old laugh does wonders for lifting your mood and shaking off negativity. Find the thing that will make you laugh, such as watching a film or reading a book.

MEDITATION

Don’t get too hung up on the intricate details of what meditation is, I see it as my time to simply go within. By taking time out and connecting to my emotions, I give myself the opportunity to understand what is driving my thoughts with the aim of ultimately letting them go. I can assure you that if you choose to ignore your feelings, they will only come back to haunt you in another way, so you need to deal with them.

There are plenty of other things you can do too, but I recommend you write a list of the solutions that work for you. When you next feel down, visit that list to remind yourself of what you need to do. Good luck.

If you do however feel you are under psychic attack then please contact me. I can offer a free assessment of your energy to see what could be holding you back.

How Can You Heal Remotely?

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“Don’t you need to come to my house to clear the negative energy?’ is a question I sometimes get asked.

It is a good question.

My name is Emma Loveheart and I heal homes from a distance (wherever I happen to be actually, I just need quiet and to not be disturbed) and I can alter energy within another home. But how?

We live in a very physical world. Our homes and possessions are physical. We can touch them, see them, hear them, smell them. We use our senses to confirm physical existence. It is natural for us to expect a physical solution to a problem that is physically affecting us.

However, energy is all around us and at the very core of our existence. Although it can manifest itself physically, like hearing a radio through a radio signal, we don’t necessarily identify it with our senses. But it is the energy that I connect to and work with, and because it is energy, I can connect to it from anywhere. I don’t need to be at the exact place where I am conducting clearing work.

When working with paranormal activity in a home, I use my spiritual self to connect to it. Using support from universal beings and energy, I am able to move it on and therefore clear it from a property. For clearing earth stresses I use an age old tradition of dowsing to alter negative stresses to positive. Because I am connecting to the earth stresses via the universe through dowsing, again, I do not need to be on site to have an effect.

Connecting to energy is something we can all do and can have a positive and empowering effect on ourselves and others around us.

Let me share with you two simple exercises that work with energy.

Exercise 1

You can control your energy and ensure it is vibrating at a proper level to attract positive experiences in your life. To understand this, firstly think of something that makes you unhappy. Where do you feel this? Sit with the feeling and notice how it brings you down, makes you sad, or makes you feel miserable. You will usually feel this in the pit of your stomach. Now think of something that makes you really happy. Something you love to do or someone you love to be with, or somewhere you love to be. How does this feel and where do you feel it? You will usually feel this in your heart, or in your head and it can feel light and joyous. That is the difference between low vibration and high vibration. The secret is to stay in a higher vibration as this is where you attract positive energy back into your life. It also makes you feel good and everyone around you will benefit!

Exercise 2

You can do this exercise with a friend. Sit opposite each other and take it in turns to send positive thoughts and send positive energy to your friend. Think of light flowing from you to your friend and send them love. Bathe them in your wonderful loving energy. Now ask you friend to do the same to you and notice how you feel. Close your eyes and feel the energy pouring into you.

These exercises demonstrate the power of energy and how we can influence it within ourselves and on others. Working with energy in this way is how I am partly able to conduct my work remotely.

I offer free assessments of energy in homes and if you would like a report please complete the request form on my website www.homehealer.co.uk.

Spirits Arriving after a Clearing

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Spirits arriving after a House Clearing

I was asked by a previous client to look at their house again some months after I had conducted a clearing. All had been well with the clearing despite there being a lot of stress in the house which the owner was well aware of, and clearing had restored calm.

So I was surprised when she got in touch with me again asking for a further assessment on the house She claimed the energy was feeling strange and had noticed it had changed after her neighbour had sadly passed away of a sudden heart attack.

Knowing that once I have cleared a house, it will stay clear, I was fairly sure that the energy change was due to the passing of the neighbour, as it was too much of a coincidence. I connected with the spirit energy of the neighbour and immediately sensed he was not happy about dying! This would be understandable as it was a sudden and unexpected heart attack.

I also sensed the spirit as female even though I knew the neighbour was a man. When a person dies unexpectedly, they can stay in the moment and not pass over to the light. In this case, the neighbour was being drawn to the positive energy of my clients house, almost as if he was asking for help. Luckily my client had recognised the change in the energy and asked for my assistance.

On connecting with the neighbours spirit, I was able to show him he was in fact in spirit and was stuck. I showed him my clients house and explained it was so bright due to the positive energy there and that there was more light like it that he could go to. I then showed him further light from above and let him go explore at his own pace. His anger at dying and being stuck was giving off a negative energy that my client picked up.

She soon got in touch with me explaining how much better the house felt, and how lifted the energy was again. She also told me her neighbour had a very feminine energy, so that explained that one!

Do I need to be on site to work?

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Do I need to be on site?

I do all my negative energy clearing work from a distance. I access universal energy and then direct this to where I need it to go, and tell it what I need it to do. All I ask for from clients is the home address, to make sure I am directing the energy to the right location.

The simple answer is I do not need to be on site to carry out my work, and I would like to share an example of a house I cleared proving this point.

This particular house had some rather dark energies at one side of the property. It came up in the psychic clearing stage. It was spiritual, had been in the building for some time, and was being fuelled by a ‘not very nice neighbour’ on that side of the house. When I came to clear it, I visualised the energy in an attached garage, running the length of the property front to back. I moved the spiritual energy on and replaced it with healing energy and then carried on with the clearing.

As this client was local to me, I visited the home after I had finished the clearing and on arriving at the property I parked in front of the garage – a separate building opposite the house.  There was no garage attached to the house as I had visualised.

This gave me doubts as to the accuracy of my work. However, on talking with the client and her showing me round the house, I explained about the darker energy to one side of the house which was a living room and how I had seen it as a garage. She immediately told me the room had been converted from a garage and how she hardly ever sat in that room as it felt uncomfortable.

This gave me confirmation that I do not need to be at the house. If I had seen the house before I did the work, I would not have believed I was seeing a garage and my logic brain may have stopped me being as effective. I always have to trust my intuition working with spiritual energy.